Thursday, January 11, 2018

Things men are afraid to ask a woman in bed during sex

Rules to follow when dating a married sugar daddy

So, you’re dating a married man? While this may not be your  ideal scenario, many of our Sugar Daddies are, in fact, married. As his Sugar Baby you need to know your place in his life. Many people assume that sugar with no strings attached also means sugar with no emotions attached. But we all know that sugar can be messy: people fall in love, forge strong relationships and sometimes get their hearts broken. Sugar with a married Sugar Daddy? Even messier. Here are a few rules you can follow to help you navigate the rough waters of sugar on the side.

1. His needs (and his family’s) will come ahead of your’s.

Dating a married man, no strings attached, basically means that he needs to keep his other strings intact while dating you. Those strings being his wife, his family, his job and whatever else he is obligated to. You will come last on his list, and you have to be willing to accept this reality for as long as you are together.

2. Your relationship will be more beneficial to him.

Your relationship will most likely have to be kept a secret, which means you will be sacrificing more than he is. You may be on call 24/7 or going out of your way all of the time to meet him in obscure restaurants or off-the-beaten path hotels.

3. Respect his boundaries.

He is a married man, and while he is choosing to add sugar to his life, that doesn’t mean he wants to change anything about his home life. Know your place in his life, and respect that you are a separate part of his life. This may mean that you don’t talk about his wife or his family, or that you can only contact him under certain conditions. It’s important to discuss these boundaries upfront, so everyone is on the same page.

4. Do not get involved with personal drama.

It is in your best interest to keep out of any personal conflicts, even if you get caught. Try your best to not be at the center of the drama, but if you can’t help it do your best to minimize the impact. Don’t go to his wife, or get involved if she reaches out to you. If you start to become involved with his personal drama, it may be best to move on.

5. Don’t ask him to leave his wife.

Sometimes sugar is so sweet, we fall in love and start imagining a life outside of sugar. But he already has a life, with someone else. You knew this ahead of time, and things aren’t going to change just because your feelings did. He is not going to leave his wife, and you can not ask him to. He would have a different kind of relationship if that were the case.

6. Be creative during holidays.

Christmas, Valentine’s Day and birthdays are often very routine for a married man. A predictable gift, a holiday ritual that he shares with his family every single year. You need to bring something different to the table. He has chosen to be with you for a reason, don’t let him forget why.

7. Always use protection.

This might be a no-brainer, but slipping up with a married man could be devastating. No matter what your beliefs are, you will be forced to make decisions you won’t want to make, don’t even risk it.

Friday, November 24, 2017

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My Dad owns one of the biggest superstores in my street
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Thursday, August 31, 2017

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Thursday, June 29, 2017

Eleven (11) Facts About bosoms Every Woman Should Know

 Have you ever looked at your bosoms and wondered if they’re normal? It turns out, they come in all different shapes and sizes. What’s more, they can bring you incredible pleasure, help feed a baby, and even tip you off to some potentially serious health problems. Seriously, they’re amazing. After reading this, we promise you’ll have newfound respect for this body part. Here, everything you need to know about your bosoms.

 1. They Can Span Several Inches
 The size of a woman’s bosoms and areolas can be as wide as a half-dollar or smaller than a dime, and either way is totally normal.

 2. They Come in a Range of Colors
 Pale pink, brick red, dark brown: bosom pigment has to do with a woman’s ethnic background and the hue of the rest of her skin. Just as bosom size changes when you have a baby, so does bosom color, and that shift in shade is often permanent.

 3. They’re Capable of Much of Pleasure
 bosoms are an erogenous zone for many women, and a 2011 study from the Journal of s*xual Medicine backs this up. Researchers using MRI imaging found that when bosoms are stimulated, a pleasure center inside the brain lights up the same way it lights up after stimulation of the cli**ris and v**ina.

 READ ALSO https://boewap.blogspot.com.ng/2017/06/sixteen-16-signs-you-may-have-hiv.html

  4. bosom Orgasms are Not Fiction
 The same 2011 study that showed a link between bosom stimulation and the pleasure center of the brain also raised the possibility that bosom stimulation alone could result in climax, something s*x researchers previously estimated that only a “small number” of women could experience.

 5. They Sometimes Come in Threes
 It’s not uncommon for a man or a woman to be born with three bosoms (or four, or five, or seven, as one 2012 study details). These extra bosoms, known as “supernumerary bosoms,” resemble a mole or mark. They never develop into actual br**sts, and they can show up anywhere on the body, according to the National Institutes of Health.

 6. bosoms Are Supposed to Be Bumpy
 Look closely at your bosoms and the surrounding areolas; they kind of resemble the bumpy, crater-filled surface of the moon. “Those bumps on the areola can be hair follicles, ducts, or oil glands that produce lubricating fluid. It’s totally normal to have them.

 READ ALSO https://boewap.blogspot.com.ng/2017/06/if-you-are-into-mature-these-are-nine.html

7.But Sometimes a Bump Is Bad
 News A rare form of chest cancer called Paget’s disease can present itself as a red bump or rash on the bosom or areola. It’ll look like an angry skin change that doesn’t go away. If you spot this and it persists for a few weeks, have your doctor take a look.

 8. They Don’t Love the Gym
 Working out is super-healthy for your body as a whole, but it can be rough on your bosoms, which often get dry, chafed, and even bloody as they rub back and forth against your sports bra. Dabbing on some petroleum jelly before a treadmill session will soothe irritated skin.

  9. Nursing Can Do a Number on Them
 Soreness, pain, cracking, bleeding—these are just some of the consequences of having a hungry newborn attached to your bosoms several times a day, says Dweck. These symptoms tend to disappear as a new mom gets the hang of it, but if your bosoms continue to suffer, get an assist from your pediatrician or a lactation consultant.

 READ ALSO https://boewap.blogspot.com.ng/2017/06/is-your-marriage-worth-fight-6-things_21.html

 10. They Can Leak Milk
 Nursing moms, you might want to keep an extra blouse in your purse or glove compartment. It’s a totally freaky phenomenon, but many B.reastfeeding women have found themselves suddenly leaking milk as soon as they hear the cry of a random infant or baby nearby.

 11. Discharge Can Be a Warning Sign A little discharge that comes out after you’ve squeezed your bosom is probably no big deal. But a white, creamy discharge that’s released on its own could be a sign of a non-cancerous growth in the brain. Green or black discharge can tip you off to a benign duct problem. And bloody discharge might mean chest cancer. If you experience the latter, bring it to your doctor’s attention.

Monday, April 24, 2017

See What Happens When You Put Onions In Your Socks And Sleep

The bottom of your feet are powerful and direct access points to internal organs in your body through what is known as meridians in Chinese medicine. These meridians are pathways to each organ with your body. Some people say that meridians do not exist within the body or at the bottom of the feet. For those that understand Chinese medicine you may know that the meridian system is very closely correlated with the nervous system.
If you believe you have nerves and a nervous system, you believe you have meridians too, it’s basically the same thing when you interpret it and look at where the meridians are within the body.
Here are the benefits of cutting up an onion and putting it in your sock (at the bottom) while you sleep…
READ ALSO https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/reasons-men-are-unable-to-satisfy-their.html
1. Purify your blood: Phosphoric acid from the onions as it’s applied and absorbed through trans-dermal means purifies the blood.
2. Kills bacteria, germs and pathogens: Onions (and garlic) have strong anti-bacterial and anti-viral benefits!
3. Purify the air: This little chamber of smelly onion around your feet will purify the air and keep your feet smelling better and free of toxins and chemicals pulling them out of your feet while you sleep.
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Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Exp0sed !! New Deadly Disease Worse Than HIV That Condoms Can’t Stop (Must Read)

Unmarried men too seem to prefer condoms as the popular method to protect against STIs. But for a virus whose disease has no symptoms, the inefficacy of condoms allows for faster and wider spread, especially amongst those with multiple s*x partners. The only 100 per cent effective way to prevent HPV transmission is abstinence from any s*xual contact, including oral, an*l, and vaginal s*x. See also: Morning after:That ‘oops’ moment when women’s emergency pills backfire Since abstinence may not be a realistic option, Dr Mugo advises remaining monogamous while in a relationship, vaccination and screening for women. Women can also pass viruses without having any symptoms.
READ ALSO https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/seven7-things-you-should-never-do-to.html

But the chance of females infecting men is estimated at less than five per cent of the rates of male-to-female transmission. There are more than 100 types of HPV and about 13 of these are cancer causing, with HPV types 16 and 18 causing approximately 70 per cent of all cervical cancers worldwide.
Sadly, it’s physically difficult to tell whether your partner has the HPV virus unless they have private part warts, yet those who do not have visible signs can also spread the virus. The other interesting aspect of this particular virus is that you do not need to have s8*x for it to be passed on from one person to another. The virus is found in the flora of the man-hood, scrotum, vag1na, vulva@, or anus of a person who has the HPV. One can get infected through kissing or touching an infected s8*x organs or through oral s3’x.
Since cervical cancer is the leading cause of cancer deaths among adult women, in the developing world, and the second most common cancer among women worldwide, preventive measures include getting a pap smear for women and/or getting vaccinated. Better still, it’s important that you be honest with your partner about your s3’x history.
READ ALSO https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/things-that-you-must-not-do-to-your.html

Immunizing all girls before becoming sexually active ideally aged nine to 13 years in order to lower the risk of HPV took off in Kenya under a pilot project in Kitui County in 2013, targeting 20,000 girls

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Seven(7) Things You Should Never Do to Your P3nis Before S3x

When it comes to s3x, a lot has been said on how women should try and seduce her partner, but very less about men, asides going by the ‘dos’ there are certain ‘don’ts’ that men need to follow so they don’t spoil their s3x lives and give their women some memorable moments to cherish”. Here goes the list:
Here are a list of things you should never do to your p3nis before s3x.
READ ALSO https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/7-sx-positions-that-are-more-fun-than.html
Don’t indulge in too much p3nis-play: Foreplay is very necessary before s3x but you don’t need too much of foreplay, “indulging in too much p3nis-play, stretching, turning, twisting is not going to make you ready for the action, if you have problems getting an er3ction even after foreplay and an urge to indulge, talk to your doctor rather than damaging the organ with your frustrated moves”.
Don’t indulge in too much handjob: Be cautious of too much handjob as it can ruin the fun for you, it can damage your sensory nerves instead of tickling it.
Avoid cleaning with the wrong ingredients: “Of course, your girl would detest the stench if you have been unhygienic with your privates, but that doesn’t mean you try to clean your organ with scented shampoos or washes fearing you would miss out on a blowjob but just water and soap is enough”. You don’t want to end up in rashes, redness and other problems just before s3x.
Don’t stretch your p3nis: You don’t have to pull your p3nis to make it bigger, don’t try to impress your girl with a big p3nis by stretching it which can damage it. Instead of obsessing over the size of your p3nis, get to work naturally and your girl will love it.
Applying too much pressure on it: “Whether during foreplay, getting a handjob or a blowjob, be cautious, too much pressure out of excitement can lead to penile fractures or damage the sensory nerves”.
Going overboard with blowjob: Guide your partner to help you get excited and not hurt you, forcing your partner for a blowjob could backfire so let it come from her willingly and if she is a novice, feel free to guide her through it. Don’t try to lubricate it: Stop.
READ ALSO https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/reason-why-men-does-not-want-sx-with.html

Just ask yourself why you are even doing it. Your penis needs no lubrication. Your woman’s vaginal fluid is enough to get you into a smooth action. Moreover, if you are using a condom, it comes with a slimy coating to help you get better with your action. So why complicate your organ with external lubricants which might give your rashes or infections later.
Don’t try to lubricate it: You will be doing yourself more harm than good if you lubricate it, your p3nis needs no lubrication as your woman’s vag!nal fluid is more than enough to get you into a smooth action. “Moreover, if you are using a condom, it comes with a slimy coating to help you get better with your action. So why complicate your organ with external lubricants which might give your rashes or infections later”.

Friday, April 14, 2017

Reason why men does not want s*x with their wife

Contrary to popular belief, men aren't always raring to go all day every day. And surprisingly, guys can have long-term dips in desire just like women. In fact, 14.4 percent of men reported a distressing lack of sexual interest lasting at least two months in the past year, according to a new study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. Read on to discover some of the most common reasons why he may not be in the mood.
ALSO READ https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/reason-why-woman-cry-during-sx.html 
His Sexual Confidence is Low.
Men with low confidence levels in their erectile function were more likely than other men to report a lack of desire in this study. "Even just one incident of erectile dysfunction for a lot of guys can create a cycle where they think it could happen again and their whole libido lowers," says sex therapist Brandy Engler, Ph.D., author of The Men on my Couch. If your guy is having trouble getting or keeping an erection, take the focus off of that for a while and put it onto something else, like kissing, fondling, or your own pleasure.   

ALSO READ https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/the-reason-why-men-should-send-their.html
He's Stressed at Work.
According to the study, this was the number one reason men reported having a low libido. Really, it's not all that different from how your own body reacts to stress by dampening desire. "When you're stressed and in your head all day, your nervous system is all wound up, your body's releasing cortisol, and you're not relaxed enough to experience pleasure," says Engler. If this is the case, make sure foreplay is slow, sensual, and calming—like taking a hot shower together, massaging each other, or just having an old-school make out session that let's you both relax and get in the mood.
There's Something Off in the Relationship.
ALSO READ https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/the-surprising-sign-youre-in-happy.html
You'd be surprised how important the mind-body connection is for men when it comes to sex, says Engler. "If there's a relationship issue he's holding on to or some kind of resentment he's feeling, the body is unlikely to respond to desire." So don't be too surprised if guys aren't always amped for makeup sex—he might still be mulling things over. In that case, it may be worth hashing things out to see if there are any issues that should be addressed outside the bedroom.
He's Bored.
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Sexual boredom in long-term relationships was another major reason that men reported a lack of sexual interest in the study. Don't panic—this doesn't mean he's bored with you. While women tend to take this personally, Engler says it's often not about the woman at all. It could just be that your sex life has fallen into a routine. Most of the time, Engler's patients say they shut down when they're always the ones initiating sex. So if you've fallen into a rut, make an effort to mix things up and show some passion. Suggest role-playing, take the reins when it comes to trying a new position, or experiment with one of the items on our sex bucket list. "Play more of a role when it comes to being creative and seductive," says Engler. "Be present in the experience."
He Already Masturbated That Day.
ALSO READ https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/7-sx-positions-that-are-more-fun-than.html 
Hey, it's totally possible that he got a little carried away without you, and now he's not feeling as strong an urge to hop into bed. For some men, especially as they get older, they don't feel as strong a desire if they've recently masturbated, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. author of She Comes First. Just let him know that next time you'd like to join in on the fun.
He's Just Not Feeling Sexy.
You know you don't feel as frisky after too much Indian food and not enough exercise, and neither does he. If he's just not feeling great, he doesn't have a willingness to get aroused, which means sex just isn't on the agenda for him, says Kerner. He suggests taking a little longer with foreplay, kissing, and touching to see if you can get him over that desire hump. "Sometimes if you can just get arousal going, your body will do the rest of the work," says Kerner.
ALSO READ https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/six-6-reasons-men-see-women-you-as-cheap.html

Thursday, April 13, 2017

Reasons Men Are Unable To Satisfy Their Women In Bed

It’s commonly believed that men are more sexually active as compared to their female partner. But very often, they too encounter several fears related to their bedroom romp, which can in turn cause doldrums in their sexual relationship.
Fears related to their sexual performance, sex position, ejaculation period, a satisfying orgasm and wild acts in bed often end up killing their passion. With these fears running through their mind, men not only fail to satisfy their female partner, but are unable to enjoy the act themselves.
Chandigarh-based sexologist Dr. Deepak Arora explains, “Men always relate sex and sexuality with their egos and they never want to fail there. This is the biggest fear in them which converts to performance anxiety. This anxiety leads to a man failing to perform well in bed and if their female partner does not have the patience to bear with them, relationship goes for a toss easily.”
Relationship counsellor Dr. Gitanjali Sharma adds, “Men need to understand that when it comes to sexual performance, they can’t outperform themselves. The urge for performing better each time has to come from within by raising your consciousness to higher levels. And when self satisfaction comes, there is no question of under performing. You have sex for enjoyment and not to perform, under perform or out perform. It’s a joy, sheer joy, so shed all your inhibitions and concentrate on the act.”
ALSO READ https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/7-sx-positions-that-are-more-fun-than.html
As most male fears revolve around satisfying the female partner, Gitanjali suggests, “Till the time your women is emotionally satisfied, you can easily satisfy her sexual needs. The more emotionally connected you are, the more enjoyable physical intimacy will be. Try and indulge in physical intimacy only when your woman is ready, as it helps creating a comfort zone where she will participate equally. And while having sex, stay calm, relaxed, indulge in foreplay and nothing will stop you from performing the desired way.”
Here are some common fears that make men nervous every time they gear up for a steamy romp…
Fear fright # 1: Leaving her unsatisfied
The foremost fear of leaving the female partner unsatisfied has a direct correlation with a male’s organ size. While a woman thinks bigger the better, the man keeps worrying about what if he’s unable to give the desired pleasure. This fear of not giving their best somewhere triggers a feeling of being an imperfect sex partner, which may even hit a man’s ego directly.
Get Over It : Dr. Gitanjali Sharma explains, “The fear of not satisfying a women leads to many questions in a man’s mind. He starts thinking that will she look for that sexual satisfaction elsewhere and that thought of her being with someone else (because of his under performance) will make him more complex. This is like a vicious cycle, as the more he thinks on this subject, he gets driven by performance anxiety, thus leaving her unsatisfied most of the times. Performance in bed mainly depends on a woman’s state of mind at that time. You need to be comfortable with your woman’s body to feel a strong connection. Go slow and steady and understand your woman by awakening her sensitive parts rather than worrying about your size.”
 ALSO READ https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/the-surprising-sign-youre-in-happy.html
Fear fright # 2: Premature ejaculation
A gratifying sex quickie is all about giving and receiving pleasure. While men make every efforts to please their female partners, they would, most of the times, remain anxious about their own climax and this fear is driven by the ejaculation period. It’s a very common apprehension that men come across where they suffer premature ejaculation due to which they end up spoiling sex.
Get Over It : Dr. Arora elucidates, “Medically, if a man is able to hold his ejaculation for at least one minute, he is not a patient of premature ejaculation. But unfortunately very few people know this fact and they are being misguided with fake ads and while watching porn movies, which makes them think that they are unable to have sex for a longer period. This creates a feeling of insecurity about their female partner and the sexual stress mounts, which gets converted into performance anxiety. In most of the cases, the problem practically doesn’t exist, but the fear is creating it.”
Fear fright # 3: Not getting her pregnant
Though it’s not necessary that every sex session should be aimed at getting the woman pregnant, but still men do carry impotency fears in their minds. The continuous worry of not getting a woman pregnant puts men in a serious stigma, which adversely affects their sexual performance.
Get Over It : Dr. Arora says, “Having a child is related with both male and female health and destiny too. There are numerous cases where medically everything is normal, but the female is unable to conceive. You should try to have a healthy life style, a proper diet and a positive attitude about yourself. If there is any problem with your semen, it can be treated, so no point worrying about it. The first need is a good sex life, not having a child.”
Fear fright # 4: Lacking porn value
It’s a normal practice that men watch porn to learn certain sexual acts and then repeat them with their partner. In an attempt to try something new and opt for wild acts, men repeatedly indulge in bringing out the porn elements in their sex life. And many a times, if the female partner is not responding positively, men start feeling that they are lacking somewhere.
Get Over It : Dr. Gitanjali says, “Men often compare their sexual performance with porn scenes or with that of their female partner and the fear that they might be less experienced makes them panic. Men should understand that performing in bed has nothing to do with any experience. It’s the mental connection with the female partner which can exist even without taking any inspiration from the porn acts.”
Fear fright # 5: Masturbation done in the past
Several studies have claimed that masturbation done during one’s childhood or adolescent years doesn’t impact a person’s sex life in his later years. Yet there exists numerous fears attached to the same. Men often blame their masturbation habits for their weak bedroom performance and with this illogical apprehension; they fail to focus on their present sexual acts.
Get Over It : Dr. Arora advices, “Masturbation doesn’t harm much, but the guilt of masturbating is more harmful, and this is just due to lack of sex education. Every healthy male masturbates many times in his life in various stages of age, there is nothing to worry about.”

Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Reason why woman cry during s*x

Why women cry during s*x: When you imagine having s*x that you’re totally into, crying probably isn’t part of the picture.
But sometimes when you’re in the middle of doing the deed, your emotions take over and you suddenly find tears leaking out of your eyes. You might feel surprised depending on the situation, but being overcome with feelings during the act is actually pretty normal, even when you actively want to have s*x.
READ ALSO https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/7-sx-positions-that-are-more-fun-than.html
Here, 7 women show as much by sharing the reasons they’ve cried during s*x.
Some are heartbreaking while others are incredibly sweet, but all of them prove that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with getting emotional during that. Sometimes, you’ve just got to let it out.
1. Because of confusing an*l s*x-induced feelings.
“I was having anal thing with my boyfriend of two years. We were slightly tipsy after a few glasses of wine, and it was only the second or third time we’d tried it.
A few minutes in, I burst into tears, and not from pain. I started crying because I wasn’t sure if I felt degraded or not, and if I did feel degraded, then I was actually enjoying it.
It was a strange feeling, and I was shocked by my own tears. My boyfriend immediately wrapped me in his arms and asked if I was OK. I said yes and started laughing, so he joined in. Needless to say, the mood was somewhat ruined, but I can confirm there have been no tears since.” —Thea C., 21
2. Because her partner cheated.
“One morning, a woman slid into my Instagram DMs and told me she and my ‘boyfriend’—I use that term loosely—had been sleeping
together and dating each other for a couple months.
I didn’t sleep with him for over a month after I found out, and the first time I did, I began to cry shortly after we began.
I was thinking about him with the other woman and the qualities she had that I didn’t. We broke up about a week after that incident
The crying made me realize this guy hurt me to my core. I’d wondered throughout our year-long courtship whether or not he really cared for me. At the moment I started crying, I said to myself, ‘Nope he doesn’t.’”—Talisha H., 28
4. Because of a surprise breakup.
“It was senior year of college, and my then-boyfriend and I hadn’t talked about graduation at all. He was walking me to a meeting I was attending, and all of a sudden he told me he wasn’t sure if he loved me enough to date me forever.
I had no idea he had doubts, and I started uncontrollably sobbing in the middle of the meeting. Later on, he came over to my place and started kissing my bre@sts, clearly wanting to have s3x, and I started crying again.
I knew we weren’t going to be together, and I loved him so much. At some point, I stopped crying, and we finished doing that thing. It’s OK now, though. I’m so not attracted to him, I’d rather get intimate with a comforter.” —Monica T., 25
5. Because of physical pain and emotional frustration.
“I suffer from v@g!nismus, a condition where penetrative interc0urse is painful. I was having s*x with my boyfriend and experiencing pain and discomfort when I started crying.
Not from the physical pain, but from the complications and frustrations that came along with the experience that was supposed to be magical and pleasant.
READ ALSO https://joseph9jablog.blogspot.com.ng/2017/04/the-surprising-sign-youre-in-happy.html

While my partner was experiencing those very feelings, I was simultaneously conflicted, in pain, and unhappy. I couldn’t help killing the mood with some tears. When he noticed, he was alarmed and rushed to comfort me, trying his best to understand what it was I was feeling. This, to me, felt most intimate of all.” —Sarah L., 23
6. Because it was really, truly over.
“A year after my ex and I mutually broke up, we were having s*x. We did everything we used to do, but we knew it would be the last time.
I broke up into tears. It was pretty obvious from my side—I have always been touchy with emotional stuff. He asked me for the reason behind my tears, but I was silent. He asked again, and I kept on with my closed lips. He then understood my silence and broke into tears himself.” —Anukriti
7. Because it was time to go back to long-distance dating.
“My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, and we had just gotten back home from our first trip abroad.
The vacation really cemented how head over heels I was for him, and being together for over a week was like a dream.
When we landed in my Midwest city, we were going to spend one last night together before he headed back to the West Coast and we wouldn’t see each other for weeks.
As we had s3x, I was honestly overwhelmed by how much I loved him and how much I didn’t want him to leave, so I started crying.
I tried to keep it subtle, but he realized. At first he was scared he hurt me, but when I explained, he wiped my tears away and comforted me.
Then we continued on having amazing stuff. Swoon.” —Kimberly C.

Saturday, April 8, 2017

The Surprising Sign You’re In A Happy Relationship

When you’re in a serious relationship, you tend to share everything—or almost everything. While you may be totally cool with sharing food, a bathroom, and the rent, it’s understandable that you might feel less comfortable opening up about more personal stuff, like sexual fantasies.
But a new study published in The Journal of Sex Research suggests that being able to open up about your fantasies says a lot about the quality your relationship.
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For the study, researchers asked people in long-term, mostly heterosexual relationships, lasting an average of 2.5 years, to answer questions online. The Qs explored the participants’ relationship stability, how well they communicated with their partners, how sexually satisfied they were, what sexual information they shared, and if they were willing to talk about things that their partners might find offensive
Here’s what scientists found:People who reported being sexually satisfied were more likely to say they had good communication in their relationship, were super satisfied with their relationship, and felt their bond was stable. They were also more likely to open up to their partners about their fantasies than people who felt less comfortable in their relationships. So, basically, talking about your fantasies is correlated with all of the things that make for a happy relationship (i.e. feeling good about your bond and being open).
The researchers wrote that their study emphasizes the importance of understanding why some people are more open to talking about their sexual desires versus others and how that can impact their sexual satisfaction.
It’s also worth noting that people were most nervous about bringing up their past sexual experiences, anal sex, and porn. However, people didn’t feel as weird about discussing what they like about sex, their individual preferences, and practicing safe sex—which are all good things to be open about.
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The connection between being open about your fantasies and having a happy relationship makes sense on some level: If you don’t feel super secure in your relationship, you’re probably not going to open up to your S.O. about your fantasy of getting banged by your local grocery store checkout guy.
But if you feel like you’re in a secure relationship and you’re still not comfy sharing your fantasies, just know that it will probably go over way better than you think—and could bring you closer (in bed and out). Here’s a little inspo on how to be more open about your sexual interests.